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More Tips to Ensure People Listen to Your Public Speaking

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Here’s a silly question – When you have to do any public speaking or make a business presentation, do you want people to listen, understand and accept what you say?

Of course you do, otherwise you wouldn’t have taken the time preparing what to say and lose sleep worrying about it.

However, have you ever considered that people may not be listening to you when you’re Speaking?

If you bear in mind, that you could be making a business presentation that leads to a big sale or a contract, then non listeners could be a bit of a problem.

So let’s consider some of the reasons people stop listening or don’t even start in the first place:

  • They could be nervous or tense
  • They can’t hear you
  • They can’t see you
  • They can’t understand or they’re confused
  • They don’t understand the jargon or the technical words
  • They don’t like the look of you
  • They’re physically uncomfortable – too hot, too cold or too stiff
  • They know what’s being said
  • They’re bored or tired
  • They’re distracted by the visual aids
  • They’ve just remembered they’ve left a tap running
  • They’ve fallen in love with the person in the next row
  • They’re thinking about what you said two minutes ago

These are only some of the reasons people don’t listen and you might think I’m exaggerating the problem.

However, if you’re giving an important business presentation then you’d better be sure you have the audience’s full attention.

The average adult has an attention span of about five to seven minutes, so it’s really easy to lose them.

A boring start to a presentation, looking unsure or nervous, and hiding behind a lectern will cause your audience to drift off in their mind.

So it’s important to start any presentation with a bang and keep moving.

Remember the old tell’em story! Tell’em what you’re going to tell’em, then tell’em, then tell’em what you’ve told’em

It makes sense to ensure people can hear so make sure your voice is loud and clear. Talk to the people in the back row and the people in the front row will stay awake!

It’s also important not to use jargon, buzz words or technicalities. Remember KISS – Keep It Simple Speaker!

Also make sure you can be seen by everyone in the room so stand up, don’t sit, don’t slouch and don’t hide behind the lectern.

Look at the audience individually when you speak, not the screen, the walls, the ceiling or out the window.

Make sure you look the part by your dress and posture?

And don’t forget to look friendly and worth listening to.

Your visual aids need to enhance what you say and not distract your audience.

Don’t be afraid of repeating yourself; just empathise the main facts of your presentation in a different way.

The one thing that’ll stop an audience in its tracks is passion. This is what makes them want to employ you, to accept what you’re proposing and make them want you to marry their son or daughter. Couple this with some
energy and enthusiasm and you have the makings of a great public speaker.

After all, you do want them to listen to you, don’t you?

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Public Speaking Tip

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If you’re ever asked to speak anywhere, and there is someone who’ll introduce you, make sure you write your own introduction. Don’t leave it until the day and have a ‘word in the chairman’s ear.’

He or she will inevitably get it wrong. They’ll mangle your name, make up stuff that will embarrass you, and generally make a mess of your introduction.

I was once introduced at business meeting by a lady who said: “Please welcome Alan Fairweather who I hear is very funny!”
The thing was that I wasn’t prepared to be funny; I believed they wanted some useful business advice, not a comedy turn. I certainly learned from that one. (And yes; I am funny!)

Write out your introduction exactly as you want it to be heard – large type, double spaced and easy to read. Underline any points you want empathised and explain what you want to the chairman.

This is no guarantee of success however; I attended a recent event where I was the main speaker. I offered my introduction to the chairman and he said, “It’s all right, I won’t need that I’ve already done some research on you and I’ve written your introduction.
Nothing I could do about it; so he went on to introduce me in a way that even I didn’t know who he was talking about.

You have been warned!

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The P’s and Q’s of Public Speaking

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Public speaking is still one of our greatest fears and I really feel for people who let ‘nerves’ get in the way. Knowing some tips and techniques can make a big difference. I hope this article helps; please let me know. Click on the article to turn the pages and read it in full screen.

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Don’t be Nervous if you’re Nervous

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When was the last time you did some public speaking? Perhaps it was a presentation to a client or your colleagues or an event in your personal life. Did you feel nervous?
It sometimes surprises people when I tell them I get slightly nervous before a speaking or training event. They seem to think that because I’ve been doing it for years, nervousness would no longer be an issue.

Public speaking is still one of our greatest fears; it turns grown men and women into nervous wrecks. The mere thought of it turns our tongue to cotton wool, causes our internal plumbing to act up and turns our knees to jelly.
However, ‘nerves’ is a normal human emotion and as I often say, “I’d be nervous if I wasn’t nervous!” It’s how you handle the nerves that will determine your success as a speaker.

The great actress Sarah Bernhardt once asked a young actress whether or not she suffered from nerves before she appeared on stage. “Oh no, Madame,” the young actress replied. “Well” Sarah Bernhardt said, “Don’t worry; it will come, along with talent.”

Nervousness is vital, you need nerves. Nerves release a cocktail of chemicals into your blood stream, one of which is adrenaline. This in turn releases glucose into the blood stream. This gives you more energy and your mind becomes sharper.
The thing is, not to overdose on these stress chemicals or you’ll start to shake like a jelly and overheat. You need to work off some of these chemicals.

Murray Walker the ex motor racing commentator used to run on the spot as fast as he could just before he went on air. You could try that or run up and down the stairs. Wave your arms about like a lunatic and get lots of oxygen into your system. Obviously it’s better to do this when no one is looking!!
Speak to as many members of the audience as you can, before you stand up to speak. This tricks your brain into thinking you’re talking to lots of your friends.
Speak louder than you’d normally do, that helps the nerves as well. It also keeps the people in the front row awake and makes sure the people at the back get the message.
Have a glass of water handy for that dry mouth. Don’t be afraid to stop and have a drink, it makes you look really professional. However, one word of warning; do not drink alcohol. It might give you Dutch courage but your audience will end up thinking you’re speaking Dutch!

If you’re into creative visualisation, then that’s also a great way to handle the nerves. Spend some time before the event visualising yourself being really successful. What ever you do, have lots of positive self talk with yourself.

Believe me; once you start to apply this, the butterflies in your stomach will all be flying in formation.

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